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The Hidden Struggles of Blending Families: Parenting Styles, Boundaries, and Finding Common Ground
Blending families can be deeply meaningful—and deeply challenging. Many parents and stepparents enter blended family life with hope, love, and good intentions, only to find themselves overwhelmed by conflict, confusion, or emotional distance. These struggles are common, and they don’t mean you’re failing. They mean you’re navigating one of the most complex family systems there is. In this post, we’ll explore three of the most common challenges blended families face: differenc

Abigail Cruey
4 days ago2 min read


Postpartum Depression: When It Doesn’t Follow a Timeline
Postpartum depression doesn’t always begin in the weeks after birth. For many parents, symptoms emerge months or even years later, often accompanied by shame, confusion, and isolation. Understanding the signs and knowing that effective support is available can make a meaningful difference.

Abigail Cruey
5 days ago4 min read


“I’m Not Upset”: The Lie We Learn to Tell When Feelings Feel Shameful
For many people, denying being upset is not a conscious choice but a learned response. Early experiences teach us which emotions are tolerated and which ones create discomfort in others. Anger may have been labeled as inappropriate, sadness as inconvenient, and disappointment as something to move past quickly. Over time, these experiences shape how people relate to their own emotional world. When emotions are met with judgment, dismissal, or subtle withdrawal, shame begins to

Abigail Cruey
Jan 253 min read


Looking Beyond the Label: Antisocial Personality Disorder Explained
Antisocial personality disorder is widely misunderstood. It doesn’t mean avoiding people, but rather involves long-standing behavior patterns that disrupt relationships and stability. Understanding the disorder is the first step toward meaningful change.

Abigail Cruey
Jan 233 min read


Digital Burnout: When Being “Always On” Becomes Too Much
We live in a world where silence is rare. Notifications buzz, screens glow, tabs stay open, and even rest is documented. Being connected is no longer something we do — it’s something we are . And increasingly, people are feeling exhausted in a way that sleep alone doesn’t fix. This isn’t just burnout in the traditional sense. It’s digital burnout — a form of mental fatigue driven by constant connectivity, information overload, and the pressure to always be reachable, responsi

Abigail Cruey
Jan 192 min read


What Is Body Dysmorphic Disorder—and How Is It Different From Normal Appearance Concerns?
Most people have moments when they feel uncomfortable about how they look. A bad haircut, an outfit that doesn’t feel quite right, or noticing a new blemish before an important event can trigger self-conscious thoughts. These experiences are common, and for most people they pass without significantly affecting daily life. Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) is different. It’s not about being overly focused on appearance or wanting to look a certain way. Instead, BDD involves a per

Abigail Cruey
Jan 142 min read


Emotional Dysregulation in Relationships: Why Conflict Feels So Intense (and What Actually Helps)
When emotions escalate or shut down in relationships, it’s rarely about poor communication. Emotional dysregulation is a nervous system response—and understanding it can change how we approach conflict and repair.

Abigail Cruey
Jan 122 min read


The Anxiety of Stillness: When the Need to Always Be Productive Becomes a Source of Stress
Many people don’t feel stressed because they are doing too much — they feel stressed because they don’t know how to stop. When rest triggers discomfort, guilt, or anxiety instead of relief, the pressure to always be productive can quietly become a significant source of emotional exhaustion. For some individuals, slowing down feels more difficult than staying busy. Quiet moments, unstructured time, or breaks may create unease rather than calm. This experience is common and oft

Abigail Cruey
Jan 32 min read


Narcissistic Traits vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder: What’s the Difference?
The word narcissist is everywhere—on social media, in relationship advice, and in everyday conversation. As a result, many people begin to wonder what it really means and whether it applies to them. Questions like Do I have narcissistic traits? Does that mean I have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)? are more common than you might think. The short answer is that narcissistic traits and NPD are not the same thing, and understanding the difference can be both relieving

Abigail Cruey
Jan 12 min read


Mom Guilt and Parental Overstimulation: Why Parenting Feels So Overwhelming—and How Therapy Can Help
The term “mom guilt” is widely used, but the experience it describes is not limited to mothers. Parents of all genders, including fathers, single parents, and non-birthing caregivers, can experience guilt, overwhelm, and emotional overload. In this article, we use the familiar term mom guilt for clarity and searchability, while recognizing that these challenges affect many parents.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by noise, constant demands, or the feeling that you can never fu

Abigail Cruey
Dec 20, 20253 min read


High-Functioning Anxiety: When Anxiety Fuels Productivity but Undermines Well-Being
High-functioning anxiety doesn’t always look like distress. For many people, it exists beneath productivity and responsibility, quietly shaping thoughts, behaviors, and emotional well-being. This article explores common signs and how psychotherapy can help.

Abigail Cruey
Dec 18, 20253 min read


Why You Feel Responsible for Other People’s Emotions: The Psychology of People-Pleasing
Have you ever felt your stomach drop when someone around you seems upset—even if it has nothing to do with you? Or caught yourself apologizing for things you didn’t do, smoothing tension before it even forms, or feeling guilty simply because someone else is uncomfortable? If so, you’re not “too sensitive” or “overreacting.” You’re responding to emotional patterns your brain learned long ago—patterns that are well-supported by decades of psychological and neurological research

Abigail Cruey
Dec 14, 20253 min read


Setting Boundaries in Relationships: How to Stop Feeling Guilty and Start Feeling Empowered
When your needs go unspoken for too long, even the strongest relationship can feel heavy. Learn how to set healthy boundaries without guilt and reconnect with your sense of self.

Abigail Cruey
Dec 11, 20253 min read


Trauma Bonding: How to Tell What It Is—and What It Isn’t
A trauma bond develops when someone becomes attached to a person who creates emotional distress but also provides brief moments of comfort afterward.

Abigail Cruey
Dec 9, 20253 min read


What Sex Therapy Really Is — And Why It’s Not What Most People Think
Sex is one of the most intimate parts of being human, yet it’s also one of the least openly discussed. When challenges arise—whether emotional, relational, or physical—people often feel isolated or unsure where to turn. Many hesitate to seek help because they imagine sex therapy as something awkward, intrusive, or outside their comfort zone. In truth, sex therapy is simply a specialized form of talk therapy. It offers a safe, structured space for individuals and couples to ex

Abigail Cruey
Dec 2, 20252 min read


Mastering Emotions with DBT
Understanding Emotional Control Emotions can feel intense, sudden, and overwhelming, and while we can’t always choose what we feel, we can learn to choose how we respond. That idea sits at the heart of DBT — Dialectical Behavior Therapy — a skills-based approach that helps people understand their emotional patterns, manage stress, and respond in ways that support their well-being instead of working against it. DBT blends mindfulness with behavior strategies and is grounded i

Abigail Cruey
Dec 2, 20253 min read


When Love Meets Limits: The Psychology of Attachment, Boundaries, and Value Conflicts in Relationships
Relationships may feel uniquely personal, yet decades of psychological research show that many of the patterns we experience—how we bond, how we argue, how we withdraw, and how we set limits—are built on universal human processes. Three forces in particular shape the quality of our connections: attachment styles, boundaries, and core values. When these elements align, relationships often feel secure and fulfilling. When they clash, even loving couples can find themselves stuc

Abigail Cruey
Nov 29, 20253 min read


Bipolar Disorder: Understanding the Condition and Letting Go of the Stigma
Bipolar disorder is often mentioned in everyday conversation, but the way it’s portrayed rarely matches the lived reality. Many people picture dramatic mood swings or extreme behavior, yet bipolar disorder is far more nuanced. It affects individuals differently, and each person’s experience can shift over time. Understanding what bipolar disorder actually is — and what it isn’t — helps reduce stigma and opens the door to better support and empathy. What Bipolar Disorder Reall

Abigail Cruey
Nov 26, 20253 min read


Finding Calm in a Busy Season
For many people, the holiday season brings lights, traditions, and connection. But for others, this time of year can feel overwhelming, pressured, or emotionally heavy. While some stress is normal during a busy season, holiday anxiety often goes deeper. If you’ve ever felt tense or on edge while everyone else seems cheerful, you’re not alone. Surveys from organizations like the American Psychological Association (APA) show that finances, family conflict, time pressure, and so

Abigail Cruey
Nov 16, 20253 min read


Understanding Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD): Education and Effective Coping Strategies
When we hear the term “antisocial,” we often imagine someone who doesn’t like being around others. In reality, Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) is much more complex. It involves long-standing patterns of impulsivity, disregard for rules or boundaries, and difficulty connecting with others emotionally. For many, these patterns can create strain in relationships, work, or daily life — but understanding them is the first step toward change. Gaining Self-Awareness People wi

Abigail Cruey
Oct 25, 20252 min read
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